Why this book?

For family members who are supporting loved ones in their homes or visiting regularly at an assisted living or nursing facility, this long good-bye can be exhausting both physically and emotionally.

There are four unique aspects to this book: an overview of what may be going on during this time as explored by Licensed Professional Counselor and bereavement specialist, Tia Amdurer; resources, suggested activities and coping strategies to help process and normalize this anticipatory grief and stress; the witty, wry and heartfelt writing and blog posts from Chris Renaud-Cogswell written as she cared for her mother in her home; and space for personal reflections. 

reviews

I couldn't put this book down - it's essential and overlooked reality written with a kind and gentle humor.  It's got the kind of information you wish your best friend could pass on.  Everyone touched by death should have this as their guide. 
​Kathleen K., EMT, New York, NY

The author did a great job of filling the pages with a friendly and warm tone.  I found the book to be informative, engaging and filled with practical and reassuring information.   She did a very nice job of inserting humor which I think all care givers need and appreciate.   Good job!     - Gayle L., former Fortune 500 Human Resources director, Denver, CO

I am on the final stages of closing my mother’s estate after five years of caregiving for my parents. Tia Amdurer and Chris Renaud-Cogswell’s new book provides comfort, practical hints, resources, emotional support and humor as caregivers take this often challenging journey.

If you are beginning this process or know someone else who is, I strongly suggest obtaining a copy of this book. It’s easy to read and is interspersed with endearing and humorous blogs from Chris Renaud-Cogswell’s experience as caregiver to her parents.  Each is accompanied by practical and supportive advice from experienced grief counselor, Tia Amdurer.

I recommend this book highly.

Laura M., staff development manager for mental health services, Bristol, CT.

This is a wonderfully readable book and as a counselor I would recommend it to any caregiver.  I loved the balanced approach with Tia's calm and gentle strategies for coping and Chris's honest and sometimes funny entries.  I found the idea of having a page after every chapter to record personal thoughts and ideas a great addition and a way to help relate the topics to one's own experience.   - Susan Splitt, LPC, Westminster, CO